What It’s Like to Lose 100% of Your Skin Color

Standing in front of the mirror today, I hardly recognize the girl I was as a child. The long blonde hair and tan skin are gone, replaced by white strands of hair and ghostly white skin. At least, that’s what I really look like today. But the world only sees my dark brown hair dye and tanner – because that’s all I let them see.

Vitiligo has taken 100% of my skin color and now part of my hair. I don’t expect you to understand how that feels – because the chances of this happening are less than .01%. In other words, it’s unimaginable. And yet, it happened to me. And after twenty years, I’m still trying to mentally grasp that change.

Here’s what it’s like to lost 100% of your skin color – and then some.

You’re invisible again – and thankful for it

No stares. No comments. No questions. The first time I put on full tanner and walked down the street, I was shocked – and thrilled – to find that I was invisible. When you live with vitiligo, you are constantly stared at – sometimes with comments and pointing fingers to go with it. It’s exhausting and intimidating to live this way. Inside, you’re going through a mental tug of war, telling yourself you’re beautiful, while being constantly reminded that you look “weird” by every set of staring eyes. To be invisible is a welcomed relief that can’t even be put into words.

You still feel like you have spots – at first

After living with spots for twenty years, the feeling of having spots doesn’t go away – at least at first. No one else could see the spots, but I still felt like I had them. I still looked at my skin like they were there. I still panicked at the thought of wearing shorts. To me, I was one big canvas of spots all patched together. They had just been there – and I knew they could come back. It took another few years for this constant anxiety about someone seeing my skin to go away. Today, I still get anxious about it from time to time, but I know it’s only psychological and do my best to let it go.

You carry an invisible burden

For most people with vitiligo, your spots tell a story – they let people know that you’re dealing with a skin condition. Today I’m still struggling to accept this condition and wrap my head around the fact that my skin has completely changed colors. Yet coworkers and friends that I’ve met within the past few years are surprised to find this out. They wouldn’t know – and couldn’t know – unless I told them. On the one hand, having this level of privacy is a beautiful gift. On the other hand, it’s interesting to hear people make assumptions about my life that are laughable to me – because they can’t know the twenty-year history I carry under my tanner and hair dye.

You don’t recognize the girl in the mirror

The girl in the mirror isn’t me – it’s the result of what an incurable disease has done to me. And that’s hard to accept. I’m often asked why I wear tanner if my spots are gone – why don’t I just let myself be pale? First, I’m quick to explain that “being pale” and having no pigment can look quite different. Yet I see their point. To them, it probably seems like an easy decision. But it’s one thing to be born with pale skin, and just know that that’s who you are. It’s another to wake up every day for twenty years and watch a disease take over your skin color, one little patch at a time. I understand this is a new me – logically. And yet emotionally, some small part of me is holding on to the old me.

Do you have universal vitiligo? Tell us about your experience in the comments below.

Photo by Rachael Laurin Photography.

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Erika Page

Erika Page is a writer and blogger with universal vitiligo. Her first spots appeared on her spine when she was seven years old and today vitiligo covers her entire body. Based just south of Washington, D.C., Erika founded Living Dappled to create a community of inspiration and hope for girls and women living with vitiligo.


  1. Paula

    I’m 95% non pigmented now. I used to find interesting shapes almost like abstract pigment tattoos but those are too gone. I’m walking around looking transparent to the world. I always tell people I could star in the “Twilight” movies and I wouldn’t need makeup. I can deal with it most of the time but I’m just living running for shade cover because the heat from the sun hurts. I miss my golden summer life being kissed by the sun.

    • Erika Page

      Paula, I know how you feel!! When I take photos with friends – especially at night – I’m always reminded of how ghostly I am, even with tanner on sometimes. And yes, just being in the sun’s rays feels painful to me.

  2. Thidar

    I know that feeling because it is what I am feeling now. I am too white for people who lives around me. They asked me what I did for my skin to get white like a clay doll. The kids stare at me all the time. I am too white for taking photo with my friends who have tan skin. And I avoid beach because sun’s rays will kill me.

  3. Tracy LeMaster

    You speak of skin tanner. I have used this several times in the past to fill in my white patches but could never find one that would actually stay on. What do you use and what works best for you? I tried SO many products …

    • Erika Page

      Tracy, great question! After trying many products, I landed on St. Tropez, which is a foam self-tanner. I love how quickly it dries and how well it tans my skin. It does come off a bit in the water though. If you’re looking for something to fill in your spots that won’t come off, you might look into Zanderm!

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