The Winnie Harlow Moment That Made Me Cry—and Why It Matters
When Winnie Harlow—the most recognizable person with vitiligo in the world today—was a child, she wished on a star that she could look like everyone else. She wished her vitiligo would disappear.
For those of us living with vitiligo, that wish—often quiet, often deeply personal—is something many of us know all too well.
Now, Winnie is revisiting her childhood in a new campaign in partnership with Incyte, sharing a message both for her younger self and for those living with vitiligo today. The message is simple, but powerful: Change is coming. The future of vitiligo is getting brighter.
In one story, a young Winnie writes a letter to herself about a painful comment made at school: girls running away from her to avoid “catching her skin.” In another, adult Winnie walks through her childhood bedroom, pointing to photos from a time when her skin was losing pigment, saying quietly, “At this age, I really wished I looked like everyone else. I really wished I could have my pigment back.”
That moment immediately brought me to tears. Because for those living with vitiligo, that comment isn’t just reflective—it speaks to the deepest longing many of us have carried at some point: to look “normal,” to avoid stares, to feel at ease in our own skin.
But what makes this moment truly meaningful isn’t just the emotion—it’s what it represents for the vitiligo community today.
What This Moment Really Represents
Winnie’s story makes for a powerful campaign. But this is more than a well-executed and heartfelt story. This is a moment that speaks to the heart of what the vitiligo community needs, beyond awareness and representation.
1. More language for our experience
For so long, vitiligo stories were either invisible or oversimplified. Seeing nuanced, emotional storytelling like this gives people language for feelings they’ve carried quietly for years—grief, hope, fear, and resilience all at once.
2. More choice—without pressure
Winnie is clear about something important: loving your skin and wanting options are not opposites. Having the ability to decide what to do—or not do—gives people their power back. Choice doesn’t diminish acceptance; it strengthens it.
3. A shift from awareness to understanding
Visibility matters. But understanding changes lives. This moment moves the conversation past what vitiligo looks like and toward how it actually affects confidence, mental health, and daily life.
As Winnie shared on Instagram, “When I was growing up, there wasn’t much information about vitiligo to turn to because research was so limited. I am proud to be part of the change today. Education sits at the heart of every conversation about representation and inclusivity.”
That sentence matters. Because education isn’t about telling someone what they should do. It’s about ensuring people have access to guidance and resources so they can make informed, empowered decisions about how they live with vitiligo—on their own terms.
Why This Feels Different
For a long time, vitiligo conversations in mainstream media leaned heavily toward one narrative: just love yourself. And while self-acceptance is deeply important, it was never the full story.
The reality—the part that often goes unseen—is that many people living with vitiligo still struggle quietly. Some don’t leave their homes. Some avoid doctors entirely. Some carry shame they’ve never spoken aloud. Some accept their skin and still wish they had options.
This moment acknowledges that complexity.
It also reflects a broader shift—one where companies are beginning to invest more deeply in elevating patient voices and supporting education around vitiligo. Incyte echoed this sentiment, sharing the following in a statement:
“At the heart of this campaign is our collective commitment to the vitiligo community. For far too long, vitiligo has been misunderstood, overlooked, or simply not talked about. We are working to change that—to raise visibility, deepen understanding, and finally put this condition on the map in a meaningful way.”
That intention is important. It allows space for self-love and hope. For acceptance and curiosity. For honoring where you are today while still imagining something different tomorrow.
And that’s why this moment matters.
Because the future of vitiligo shouldn’t be defined by a single narrative, but by informed choice, honest conversation, and the freedom for each person to decide what living well looks like for them.
A sincere thank you to Incyte and Winnie Harlow for contributing to a conversation that so many in the vitiligo community have been waiting a long time to see reflected with honesty and care.
Summary
Supermodel and beauty entrepreneur Winnie Harlow reflects on her childhood with vitiligo in a new campaign that reveals both the pain she carried as a child and the hope she now holds for the future. Her story goes beyond visibility to highlight the importance of education, choice, and compassion in shaping how we live with vitiligo — reminding us that while acceptance matters, understanding and options matter too.
Watch Winnie’s inspiring stories at thisisvitiligo.com.
Disclaimer: Living Dappled previously partnered with Incyte to share this campaign. This post is a personal opinion and Living Dappled was not compensated for it.
A patient advocate, editor, and sought-after leader within the vitiligo community, Erika Page is also the Founder and CEO of Living Dappled. After getting vitiligo at the age of seven, she lost 100% of her skin’s pigment over 25 years. She fought her own mental and emotional battle to overcome her insecurities and embrace the skin she was in and today seeks to help other women reclaim their lives with this condition.